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Thought This picture was amazing. This is the kind of girl one could keep around. Short hair, cute face, amazing body, and the look of innocence she gives defines her further. Not to mention the headphones on while brushing her teeth means shes a bit of a computer geek which IMO is even hotter. Enjoy.
A recent Boise State University study of 484 heterosexual women showed that “50% of the women had fantasies about other women that involved some kind of sexual experience”. Does this mean they’re bisexual? Lesbian? Bicurious? Who knows and, to a degree, who cares? We don’t need to label every thought that comes into our minds, unless doing so helps us in some way. I’d imagine that there are plenty of heterosexual men who’ve entertained a homoerotic fantasy at some point, but are reluctant to admit that for fear that doing so would “make” them gay. The same goes for sadomasochism and dominance and submission. Plenty of people get off to BDSM scenarios they wouldn’t necessarily want to try, yet too many are ashamed of these fantasies and don’t even fully admit them for fear of being seen as somehow deviant, when the fact is that eroticising power, helplessness and pain are extremely common.
Attraction and action are two distinct things. Sometimes they are one and the same, and visualising yourself in a given sexual situation will lead to wanting to pursue it, but not always. We need to put a higher value on the act of fantasising and recognise that it can help revive a relationship or be a tool in figuring out what arouses us. Maybe you fantasise about being with someone other than your longterm partner, or watching them with someone, or having sex in an exotic location, or being watched, or something that couldn’t ever happen in real life. Allowing yourself the freedom to simply explore what turns you on, sans judgment, is important.
This is a non-sensical study with the women who fantasize about. If we use these perimeters as a guide so say thoughts of anger then it would say that most people are insane and sadistic killers. Because who hasn’t been upset and wanted or thought about doing something extreme to some one.? Better yet who hasn’t once thought about suicide serious or not. If we followed this study then we would of all killed our selves because we “thought” about an said action.
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Love this style hair. Know what I mean?
So this morning I had to be up at 3am to get ready to be at work at 4am. Now I normally get up at 5am to be at work at 6am, but man those 2 hours make a huge difference. Not to mention getting in the shower that early is like stepping into a time vortex, or becoming a super hero. Because everything is moving super slow but time is flying by.
Unfortunately I’m not a coffee drinker, and my stomach doesn’t normally like food in it untill I’ve been awake for a couple hours.
Today will be an interesting day….
So there are times when one feels like there is just no respect given to said self. Respect is earned no doubt, but when you’re given a lack of respect from someone or a group of people that you mutually respect it is pretty frustrating. What’s more aggravating is when you think that some individual respects you and they turn around and out of no where slap you in the face metaphorically speaking. Specifically if it is due to indirect venting or anger.
To me personally I feel that respect is one of the most important values a person can have. When that is taken away from you by some one you care about is one of the most frustrating and devastating feelings to experience. It changes your out look on things to a spiteful one and everything just makes you more angry. The worst part is you can’t even stay mad at the individual that caused everything because you care too much about them.
So where does all the anger go? No where. You sit and brood and let it just get you more and more angry. Eventually in your mind things become so blown out of proportion that you start acting irrational and make things worse. Pretty much the only thing that can save you from self destruction is the source of your frustration changing and/or asking forgiveness or bashing your head into a wall. Usually the latter isn’t the favored option but feels like it’s the only option. Unfortunately time is usually the remedy for the other parties involved, and we all know that time is the best healer… It’s also the hardest to deal with.
Sometimes people show lack of respect Due to immaturity. I tell my friends often that when I was 18 I thought I was pretty smart and mature. When I was 21 I realized when I was 18 I was pretty stupid but that I’ve grown up since then. Then when I was 25 I realized I was still a complete moron when I was 21 and how I even got dressed in the morning when I was 18 by myself baffled me. Now I’ve come to realize that no matter how mature you think you are that in a couple years you’ll look back and wonder how you survived.
I say all this because when we are younger we have unique ways of dealing with stress. Sometimes these methods effect other people we don’t mean for them to. Inadvertently disrespecting those we may care about. Now I say this as a 2nd or 3rd party being on the receiving side or looking in from out side. Not to say I’ve not done it myself but seeing it happen to me or others blows my mind and call it irrational or a pep-peeve but it frustrates me. See in mind I’ve grown up to understand my actions effect others, but seeing other people not understanding that concept yet can be tasking. It takes a lot of understanding and compassion not to bite their heads off due to their lack of maturity.
So you may be asking how does all this fit together?
Tl;dr
Immaturity is a source of disrespect, intentional or not, inadvertent or direct. The only thing we can do to help coupe with being disrespected is to keep our heads level and not over react. This is something I still strive for personally. I hope that in time I will be more mature and understanding of other people…
It was such a perfect day.
Alive
